Being stuck underemployed or unemployed at any stage of life is tough. But recently, my heart goes out to young men trying to find their way into rewarding careers. Their stories vary dramatically, with some lingering in low-paid jobs, unable to find work in their chosen profession. Others spend time playing video games and hiding in their rooms, unmotivated because they have no idea what they want to do.

As they grow older, they feel more behind and discouraged. Anxiety and depression creep into the equation, making it even harder to discern the best strategy or the right path.

Let’s be real. This is a complex problem with no one-size-fits-all solutions. But, for those of you who are in this boat, please read on. If you are a parent, friend, or relative of an amazing young man struggling to find their way, this one’s for you.

Tip Number One: Stop Looking for the Silver Bullet Career

It’s only natural to be drawn to careers offering stability and income potential. But deciding you are going to go into the latest hot job is a mistake. You must choose a profession that matches your values, skills, interests, and personality. Step back and calm down. Take a solid career assessment and meet with a career coach. You need to get out of your head, regain your emotional strength, and select a role, industry, and field that matches your natural talents.

Tip Number Two: Be Prepared to Make a Sacrifice

Any career field you choose will have a downside. The required education is expensive and takes years to finish, the entry-level salary is too low, or the competition is intense. The list goes on. It does make sense to minimize risk and cost. But, in the end, you will have to accept the inevitable hurdles and focus on work that matches you.

Tip Number Three: Stop Isolating

Depending on how long you have been struggling to find your path, it is likely that you are spending too much time alone. This is a bad choice. It will intensify your depression and reinforce the feeling that you are failing. Join any kind of group of other people your age. Soon, you will discover you are far from alone. Once you realize that your situation is both normal and common, you can start networking. In the process of meeting other people, sharing what you learned from your self-assessment, you will uncover the opportunities that can only come from interpersonal relationships.

Finally, decide on your first step. Pick one of the tips above or follow your own wisdom. Take action every day, and momentum will build. If you need further support, grab a copy of my e-book, The Ten Biggest Mistakes Job Seekers Make. Your brave decision to live up to your potential makes your life better and enriches the world.